Marriage is an institution that is regarded in utmost respect and ecstasy. When couples find it unbearable to remain in the presence of each other due to personal bad habits of addictions; unresolved arguments; cheating and polygamy; lack of communication; sexual dissatisfactions and abusive circumstances, marriage approaches the ditch of divorce.
So checkout Top Ten reasons for Divorce.
1) Incessant Argument
the majority of the reasons for divorce according to surveys state that, arguments with no end and the unresolved issues lead the road to a finite end sooner than later. 56% of the divorced couples tend to list not just one reason but several reasons that tend to be discuss consistently without a finite conclusion. This leads to thoughts that simply heap up on negativity due to their loose ends.
2) Trust Reasons
Trust is the major reason for all mishaps in a relationship of marriage or otherwise. Every relationship starts with a subtle or loud trust concept. When trust is broke, all foundations and promises dissolve on its own. Institution of marriage holds trust of both the parties and which, when hindered even slightly, shatters peace, love and the marriage itself.
3) Infidelity
Many of the reasons for divorce today owes to the partner who chooses to guarantee of intimacy outside the relationship of marriage. These accounts to the extra-marital affairs, undue friendship with people outside the marriage and lesser time spend with the spouse. Marriage is built on monogamy in most cases, that when disturbed leads to the gravest of doubts, conclusions and pain for the other without a solution.
4) Communication
Communication problems account for majority of divorces today as it results in lack of attention is a resultant of the same. Parenthood, financial management and other amenities when shared upon marriage takes a turn of incomprehensible communication tactics inherent in both partners.
5) Expectations that do not meet
Marriage is inevitably based on the expectations based on fantastical worlds filled with love, romance and pleasant adventures that guarantee ecstasy. But the common sense, is to understand that when two people come together it is not just their positive shades that merge, but the mismatches as well. The tip is love. Love teaches the trick of adjustment with a loving face, tone and feel.
6) Sexual Problems
Divorces today account to the sexual dissatisfactions as well. Sex, to many people means some unusual gratification at one end. In actuality, sex encompasses the pleasure felt by one as well the power of giving pleasure to the other. That is, sex should necessarily keep gratify and exalt both the persons and should not be done to achieve an orgasm for one of the partners.
7) Personal Habits
In most of the cases of divorce, certain personal habits of smoking, drug abuse, and alcohol alongside specific preferences of food, adventures and ideologies make irreparable damages in marriage. Spouse might simply not like the smell, taste or the aura of the aforementioned.
8) Finance
Financial troubles can guarantee no peace of mind in a family as married couples fret and rant the blame of it on each other. The trouble is also when one of them do not feel it right to talk about money while the other is the only employed person.
9) Age factor
Marrying too young leads to problems of regret, lesser exposure and selfish decisions in future that tend to surface in the light of lost desires. This results in problems in future that take the form of irreversible damaged mindsets.
10) Abuse
The most serious reason of divorce consists of domestic violence or abuses. In many countries like India, sexual abuse of the wife and domestic violence to extreme degrees of incessant rapes and horrible murders account to the fear of people registering divorce at the onset of any abuse to the spouse.
At the onset of any of the above reasons, divorce can be availed in all countries and states by approaching the law.